I mean lots of his friends from residency have girlfriends or wives and make it work. I know from my own experience that God has the answers and that He speaks to those individuals who humbly seek Him. If it is already an issue in your relationship, then it'll amplify to an extreme if you get married. If so, you have a chance. My husband is a medical student, so I have a few years until I'm a "doctor's wife. As you can see Also, the fact that she served a mission is evidence of her dedication to the religion. The history of racism and violence is upsetting. You need to disabuse them of this notion. March 19, And congratulations, "lovableluciferian" for walking away from the precipice of an untenable relationship. All parent-child relationships do.
I'd rather marry a rich doctor and let him have his affair s on the side just so long as I don't have to work anymore. Her experience may or may not be typical, but it is something to consider. She will probably feel persecuted and attacked if you try. You should ask Him what you should do, as no one else can see the end from the beginning and no one else has perfect love for you and for your potential husband. All around me, I am being asked if I am ready to be a doctor's wife, and do I know what is expected of me. I'm sorry you may be hearing a lot of negativity from us. None felt right, ever. The way he wanted to live his life, the family he wanted to have, the wife he dreamt of- matched the type of person I longed for. Would she be okay with never being married in the temple. If you are not creative just copy love poems from famous romantics.
In her obviously orthodox Mormon paradigm dad's a bishop, she went to BYU and on a missionunderstand that she believes her husband must be an orthodox Mormon and get married to her in the temple. Going along with her cult might feel fine when it is just you in her, but if you have kids, it will be very different. If you were the one who did the asking, it is simply chivalrous and gentlemanly for you to pay for dinner, the movie, or whatever else you do. Vh65, your marriage is a black swan. I get it - he's dedicated years of his life to his craft and he has one chance to roll the dice. With so much pervasive degeneracy in the media, Mormon parents think they are safe showing their kids Disney movies. There is the possibility that she will wise up over time, but not likely.
You should not be trying to be exclusive with one person, so go on dates with as many people as you can. It was actually causing more of a rift than bringing us together. I only hate one thing in the planet, and that's the Mormon church. Some Mormon girls succumb to worldly laziness. I realize that the answers to many of these questions may be different for every family, and that we need to continue to discuss them more as a couple as we continue to think about our future.