She is instructed to have children within wedlock very soon, raise these children in a Mormon home, and devote hours each week to church activities plus Sabbath observance on Sunday. We still hadn't had the "are we official. And then run from this girl if you don't think there's a chance she'll wake up. We have been married for a little over 3 years. Neither of our children ever considered medicine as a career after seeing how much their dad missed out on. But we Always had time for each other. Pretty alarming how unsophisticated so many presumably well-educated people's expectations are of marriage. I'm not trying to be mean, just very clear.
Maybe things would be have different if I had been older or if I had not been so fragile. I love talking religion with him and I have never pressured him to change his habits or anything else about him. I'm not going to hit the town with single ladies and couples find it awkward just inviting you over. I married a NOMO after a lengthy temple marriage and divorce. Mormonism is an all-in religion. She will likely want you to convert to fix the family. If he has to work late call a girlfriend or paint a picture. Mormon girls are taught that they have a divine nature. No doubt that some will be valiant up on the other side of the veil, but just as sure there will others who will reject salvation because of their high mindedness. That's probably true, and that would be a great thing for her, but they wouldn't see it that way.
See her good qualities for what they are and see it as a good relationship to remember. Girls then struggle to reconcile degenerate popular culture with Mormon expectations. See if you can become involved only if it follows your strengths and desires.
When he's not at work, he's busy preparing or at conferences or studying, basically non existent. He is passionately loving - and he is "there" for me always. Be prepared for divorce. Also, if you have girls, you must realize that they are second class citizens in the church and the church will reinforce this idea. Start doing little things even when you are not there. I have been happily married to a non-mormon for 20 years. I have no family nearby as I am from a different country.