He is always going to be the vulnerable, tired, needy one in our relationship and I don't feel like a doormat for being the one who provides that support and love to him anymore. You all are strong for staying but I just don't see how it is possible long term to live like this. I feel as if my husband and I just live passed eachother. To answer your question: Even when he does, everything is on his terms. When mormon married a mormon and failed miserably. If you really like this girl, might want to show her this. They can't seem to deal with it, and shouldn't have to. Otherwise, happiness can be found in any relationship. They seriously have movies about it. My children started a new school this year and up until last week, my husband couldn't have told you what time they started or where to drop them off.
This guy was orbiting so strongly that he changed his religion before they were even dating. Now I try to put myself in his shoes and he has always had a problem standing firm in any decision so its hard for him to say no. I am struggling to find an answer to this question for several reasons. What about the folks at church. We don't have any family here and I don't have nannies or any help.
A lot will fall into the shoulder of the other partner who is not a doctor. Have any of you wives found the same thing. It was a huge shock to me and caused a lot of worry on my part.
I went to BYU. Am still very hopeful and in love. There may be underlying personality similarities, but if the answer to "what shall I do next" is always trumped by a Morman frame of reference for one partner, but not the other, conflict is inevitable. I don't want to give up as I think it is still the stress of the exams that is motivating her response and that given time, we could work things out and have a very special and loving relationship. On the other hand lol handshe may fall into tearing guilt and leave you immediately. This insecurity is at the root of the princess syndrome. Our daughter is 6. Luckily, this seems to work out.
