An environment conducive to sex and romance will always help women to orgasm and get into the mood. Dim the lights, switch on the candles, put on good music. You want to provide an environment of safety where she can trust you and where she can be herself and let go. Be the chaperone of that world of pleasures: take her hand and let the dances begin. Start kissing her inner thighs and slowing moving to her vagina. Then kiss her lick the labia and the area around her vagina. Look at her with lust and passion. Then go up to her lips as well. Kiss her. Kiss her with her vagina juices still on your lips: show her that during passion there is no disgust but be prepared not all women will like this: be quick to get the hind and keep going without breaking the mood.

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Also making sure that the woman is comfortable both physically and emotionally. Let her lie on her back, tell her how beautiful and hot her pussy is. Spend time kissing her and looking her in the eyes before going down. I like a guy to caress my thighs, reach down to gently spread my knees apart further very erotic , occasionally reach up to touch and squeeze my breasts.
Katie Herzog
L esbians, ahead of their time, have always known the importance of cunnilingus. But for far too long, cunnilingus was seen as taboo by both heterosexual women and men. Dick-sucking may be par for the course in straight sex—anything for a man's pleasure—but pussy-eating? That is the work of the devil. That time, thank Sappho, is dying, at least in the parts of the world where patriarchy is less inscribed in both culture and law. But treating the vagina like just a warm hole to thrust your dick in is less and less socially acceptable. And so, guys, gals, and assorted nonbinary identities, if you want to be a good lover, you're gonna need to learn to eat puss.
My boyfriend was working on something on his laptop — topless, wearing white cotton pajama bottoms. He raised his eyebrows and looked at me, with the hint of a smirk on his face. No sucking, no licking, no tongue at all. Just your lips on my pussy, and soft, fluttering, fleeting kisses. I pulled up my silk nightie to reveal the lower part of my ass and pussy, and pushed his laptop away. I sat myself down in front of his face and opened my legs. My hands reached for his luxuriant hair. Grabbing a handful, I pulled his head close and pressed his face between my legs. Ah, that sensation of his soft lips pressed against the most sensitive spot on my body. I was already squirming when he dutifully obliged and planted the first of his soft kisses on my pussy.