This makes me so sad. He is in a way to become a Ex mormon. Indeed, it is the loneliness and the lack of time to have intimacy or feel connected with one another that scares me for our future. The dots are extremely close for every LDS person, its just extremely hard to connect them. I don't think I could let that happen. Response to your edit: Do NOT bring up or mention anything that could be considered "anti Mormon. She is showing a common attitude of distrust for "anti-mormon" material. While there are some differences noted here, in many ways you should treat them the same way you would girls of other faiths. Be prepared for divorce.
So, now I'm battling interview season with the fourth year dates and beginning of residency with the labor day date. You've made good points about not bringing up the CES letter or anything that could be called "anti-mormon. While it's true that Mormons are not one-dimensional and completely predictable, the odds of a successful relationship, given the OP's description of his girlfriend, are slim. When I acquired a personal testimony of the gospel as a teen, and made my own decisions regarding my faith, I felt very alone. Please don't add to that grandious ego. I recently left my family, friends and state to move across the country to be with my best friend and boyfriend during his residency. You should ask yourself if you want to pursue a future partner who was raised in an environment that causes drastic sexual suppression and you may never have a healthy sex life if she is your wife. Also, what do you and your fiancee do to deal with the busyness. Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.
But wait a minute. At parties, they drink soda and play board games. My experience has been that personal similarities and differences are a bigger element than cultural differences.
However, we rarely ever see each other and don't talk that much in between. You're walking into a den of crazy, tbm bishop's daughter, I hate to say it but you should really be contemplative about what you're stepping into. Thanks for letting us know. Is forever possible with a doctor??. It gives people a sense of purpose, while pressuring them to be 'good' by their book. There are other ways. Tough to say what will impact your girl most - but there's your best LDS. Go on your different ways as friends and don't expect your relationship to go anywhere. Love Notes for Him. I honoured this request and did not contact her until after her exams finished.