I don't think I could let that happen. The closet is deep though I think that's seriously generalizing. And he needs to trust his instincts if he thinks she's being dishonest.
And I resent being viewed as just the wife of a doctor rather than my own person with her own accomplishments and aspirations. He really was awful to women and should've come with a warning sticker. With all of this said, I wish I would have found your blog earlier. For me and the woman I'm in love with, we CAN discuss it without breaking down into spittle and hate.
Also, love how you describe how God has our backs and we can actually act on the notion of things hoped for that are not seen instead of the quaint pseudo idea that all things are known in advance, step by step, and lead to mortal and eternal bliss. I wouldn't wish this shit on my enemy. But there also are alot of committed hardworking men who take on a hard job and do their best to juggle work and family. Don't spend money on somebody else' Wife. But no one can move on to one of the 3 Kingdoms until they accept Christ and totally repent. All parent-child relationships do. I tried to date Mormon women, honestly. It MAY be true that a year in, her shelf will crack and she'll leave with him. Certainly there are such people in the church, but there are such people in any organization, and I would challenge you to remember that the members are also individuals with thoughts, feelings and the ability to rebel in their own ways. It is crucial to recognize that Mormonism has elements of belief, practice, and custom that work to make interfaith marriages especially difficult and inconvenient for both spouses.
It is hard work. How else could you go through 8 years of schooling and 3 years of residency without losing your mind. My boyfriend and i have been togther for 2 years and he has finishd his masters in buisness and is residing in Asia in his job. Honestly, he probably is giving you as much of his free time as he can,and can't give you any more.