Please wait a few minutes and refresh this page. While Scientology is way worse hopefully the parallels will get her thinking. I feel selfish to never be around but this is my dream so much so that I refuse to have children because I dont want my kids to have a workaholic mother who's never there. I feel selfish to never be around but this is my dream so much so that I refuse to have children because I dont want my kids to have a workaholic mother who's never there. At that point, I would have gotten half of everything we own.
No one, except someone who has been Mormon can understand how deep the hooks are sunk into the Mormon psyche. But I'm wondering about one thing: Do I have cause to be scared out of my mind, or should I just take a chill pill. Yet others are really great human beings. And can you talk about hard things together. I have finally realized that the church is fake and I'm so grateful that I got a second chance with this guy.
Becoming a doctor is hard. You would be her back up plan in case she can't find a guy who is a returned missionary, preferably from a prominent LDS family. After med school, after residency, after setting up a practice. He will not be permitted to bless the child in front of the ward, for instance, so you will have to choose to forego that ritual or find someone else to stand in for the father, which he may not be comfortable with. I was spiritually prepared to receive the answer that I sought. Best wishes in whatever you decide. Now I feel sadness for losing out because of fear, and a cult mindset.
Hi I have read all your comments and although I am not married to a Doctor my dad was a Doctor and I think marrying a Doctor is no different to marrying any man who works with his own ambitions. It's not impossible, just painful and unlikely. The ones who already had concerns start questioning. It's called selfishness and inability to set priorities.