And we are not bloody married yet. Last year I trained for and ran a marathon, which was a pretty good distraction, but with the move recently and work being quieter than usual I'm finding it tougher than I have before. Her Religion is more important than you will ever be Her Religion comes first and deep down, she will come to hate you for not accepting joining her religion. And if he loves you as much as you love him. The right age for getting married varies depends for men and women. And I don't have issues with her, hell, haven't even seen her in over 20 years, but the experience with the whole Mormon thing gave me better insight in to many things in life. I get to experience the joys of his culture, which I never would have known otherwise. The "loneliness" is not an issue for me.
Men search the world for women that they can stand to be around with long-term. We had lots of sex and fun. Is this a red flag or are we both just being stubborn. She likely hasn't had many long-term relationships and has no idea what dynamics are involved in one. I wish you the best of luck. I expected long hours and lots of call, which there are. All that being said, no one can tell you what is right for you except Heavenly Father. Their marriage falls apart because they are both working way too many hours, and they lose their way in life.
No one, except someone who has been Mormon can understand how deep the hooks are sunk into the Mormon psyche. Thanks again for the help. Racial differences can be very trivialвthey really didn't come up much for my parents, for exampleвand are basically false differences. But I wish he would call or text me or maybe make a sweet gesture every once in awhile. It's unfair to assume that she feels that way without asking her. We have still not decided about us, since it is at a very early stage. NeverMo in CA Date: NeverMo in CA Wrote: I've read many of the stories here and I know the religion is toxic.
I think she sounds great but she won't be able to not bring it up. The two of you can get married in the temple and live together forever for eternity. Keep your options open. I'd suggest taking issue with things that specifically bug you the most.