I also studied his advice for approaching and dating women. This was hard for me because my faith is deeply rooted within me. The views expressed herein do not necessarily represent the position of the Church. These were some tips to keep in mind when dating a Mormon guy or girl. It has just made me realize that these formulas a lot of us Mormons learn growing up about how to have a happy marriage are, well, crap. When we obsess over it we start acting like a customer in a clothing store wondering what he or she will look like if they wear that particular wardrobe.
He has changed a lot throughout this process, but I don't know what he will be like once we are finished. They might be disappointed, or overjoyed, or judgmental, or supportive. You'll know pretty quick where she stands. So, one would one think, "yay, she works, has a life and friends and has avoided the ongoing loneliness and "empty nest syndrome".
I really hadn't considered a lot of the points people have brought up. See, I am a SAHM and my husband has just gotten accepted into a 4 year pediatrics residency program this year. Because people who have problems with interfaith families must needs shortly become a thing of the past.
Mormon decried it was all a lie, an anti mormon lie. Unless you have those same understandings, I'm sad to say the relationship is almost certainly doomed. My husband is a medical student, so I have a few years until I'm a "doctor's wife. Honestly, the thing that makes me the craziest is the missionaries. Then you might want to talk about all the things her church requires. I have learned this painfully with my child growing up in the LDS community. But no one can move on to one of the 3 Kingdoms until they accept Christ and totally repent. It's not impossible, just painful and unlikely.